Simple Truths About Parenting - Session 2

[Matt's notes from the parenting series taught by Don & Blynda. These are mostly unedited from the originals. Please feel free to add clarifications in comments.]

What stands out about kids that are pleasant to be around?

• The things they do are different - but character - the kind of person they are - is the same
• Character: the collective qualities that distinguish a person; moral strength.
  
• Character can be strong/weak, positive/negative
• Goal is not to have a perfect child
• List in Galatians is Holy Spirit-driven (not something parents will drive into their kids)
• Psalm 15 (esp in The Message version) - list of traits
• How I start to look as I spend time with God: walk straight, act right, tell the truth, don't hurt your friend, don't blame your neighbor, despise the despicable, keep your word even when it costs you, make an honest living, never take a bribe
• Translates to things like being honest, loyal, responsible, hardworking, honorable, respectful, selfless, showing discretion...
• (these traits should be worked on 1 or 2 at a time, max)
• Learn what your own weaknesses are - know what the traps to avoid are
• Foundational traits: obedience and respect. (All other traits can be developed from these)

You can work on behavior, but the goal is always the heart.